My tip for getting rid of the dummy!

For parents who has given their child a dummy, started to take the dummy away can feel like a nightmare! With Rosie, She was addicted to bottles and dummies until she was about 2 and a half. This made the process even harder. We started off slowly and got rid of her dummies first before the bottles.

Rosie had a little hoard of dummies all around our flat at the time, and this made it even harder because when we thought we where getting somewhere, she would go to one of her hiding spots and find one. Talk about frustrating! We tried every tips we could. Going cold turkey, (Obviously this one didn’t work, she would find her secret ones), we tried bribery with toys and chocolate and even tried the dummy fairies. She was stubborn and wouldn’t let go.

One day, I was told by a friend, to try a new method, and at this point.. we was willing to try anything. We sat Rosie down and explained that there where some babies in the hospital that has just been born that needed them more than she did. When this was said- her eyes lite up like Blackpool and she asked why they needed them. We explained that like when she was younger, dummies helped them sleep and the babies needed them to help them sleep. We got her a box and she put all her dummies in, and we put it outside the door for the postman to pick up in the morning, and I wear that night.. she was a different child.

She may have winged for the dummy every now and again, but once we reminded her where they went she got on her way. It was crazy after all the things we tried, this finally worked and we would finally breathe. No more tantrums, no more paddies, and peaceful bedtimes. We were very happy.

We did exactly the same thing for bottles too, that took a bit more persuading but the result was the same!

Do you have any tips on getting children away from their dummies or bottles?


Until next time,

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  1. Ash Williams says:

    What a fantastic idea! I’m glad it worked 🙂


  2. Britt | Alternatively Speaking says:

    That’s such a cute way of dealing with the situation!
    Britt |

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  3. Miss A says:

    That’s so cute! Love how she accepted that the small babies needed them. My girl is one and she only using dummies for sleeping. Not sure when and how we will start removing them..

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    1. Mygirlsandme says:

      It’s so hard to decide isnt it, when the best tim for them, but also for you. You have to make sure it is perfect x

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  4. Great idea! Thanks for sharing.

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  5. What a great idea! At first I was upset that my kids didn’t take to a pacifier, but then I realized how much easier my life had became – being that I didn’t have to go through the process of taking them away! Lol.


  6. I love reading parenting tips x

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  7. tippytupps says:

    We did the same thing. When she just turned 3, my daughter left all her dummies outside for dumbo to collect and take to all the little babies. He left her a voucher for a build a bear. It worked a dream.

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  8. This is such a good post, I know when I do have kids, I’ll definitely refer to this angel!

    Love, Amie ❤
    The Curvaceous Vegan

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  9. That’s a great idea! My little cousin gave up his pacifier only because “another baby needed it.” Giving them the idea that it’ll help someone else is awesome!

    With love,

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  10. New Lune says:

    Ohh that’s such a great idea! xx

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  11. Oh wow. Who knew something as simple as telling her that other babies needed them would do the trick.

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  12. Neither of mine had a dummy, but Arya does suck her thumb.

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    1. Mygirlsandme says:

      Oh that must be harder as you can’t get rid of her thumb!

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  13. Mummy Cat says:

    We did it cold turkey, we didn’t have much of a choice with Robin has she ate through her last one.. my other two willingly put theirs in the bin, I think finding an age when they understand is easier but so far I’ve found doing it earlier isn’t as hard as I expected

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